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一个女孩从小没有妈妈，命运让她出生在吕梁的山哇。
A girl grew up without a mother, fate had her born in the mountains of Lvliang.
她到了很大才会走路，平日只能在路上爬。
She didn't learn to walk until she was quite old, and usually she could only crawl on the road.
漂亮的小学老师笃信中药，她碰到一个三脚猫的医生。
A beautiful primary school teacher firmly believed in traditional Chinese medicine, and she met a quack doctor.
这也是一个苦孩子，喜欢悄悄地写写画画。
He too was a child of hardship, fond of quietly writing and drawing.
后来，她就嫁给了他。
Later, she married him.
与我一样，岳母岳父也超生了一个儿子。女儿只好跟着奶奶在城里长大。
Like me, my in-laws also had an extra son. The daughter had to grow up in the city with her grandmother.
当了多年的老师始终无法转正，在政府工作的无用老公，给人担保贷款的老板又不见了影踪。
After being a teacher for many years, she could never get a formal position. Her useless husband who worked in the government, and the boss who guaranteed loans to others, also disappeared without a trace.
从此她学会了抽烟，倔强的女儿成了她最好的出气筒，没少挨骂挨打。
Since then, she learned to smoke. Her stubborn daughter became her best venting tool, not sparing scolding and beating.
幽谷里的玫瑰终于长大，男朋友父亲是大医药公司的老总。
The rose in the secluded valley finally grew up, her boyfriend's father is the CEO of a large pharmaceutical company.
亲家突然上门提亲，从没有见过富豪的她吓得不敢说话。
The in-laws suddenly came to propose marriage, she who had never seen a rich person was too scared to speak.
朋友带来的礼物中藏着金条，她赶快送还人家。
There were gold bars hidden in the gifts brought by a friend, she quickly returned them.
对人如同一团火，不知道自己是一个无事忙的母夜叉。
She treats people like a ball of fire, not knowing she is a busybody harpy.
每次她大驾光临，家里氛围都会很差。
Every time she visits, the atmosphere at home is very bad.
上帝让我废了牛劲才让她明白，并不是每一个人都顺着她。
It took God and a great deal of effort to make her understand that not everyone will go along with her.
儿子女儿的家并不是她自己的家。
The son and daughter's home is not her own home.
她的脾气让她得了癌症，不幸中的幸运是她亲眼看到了多年病情稳定的病友喵后的升华。
Her temper led her to cancer, but the luck in the misfortune was that she witnessed the sublimation of her long-term stable illness friend, Miao.
前几天通了电话，被赶走的她仍要女儿把我家佛教总会请来的弥勒送走，她认为没有重重贿赂和尚，佛祖就会降罪于她。
A few days ago, I spoke with her on the phone. She, who had been driven away, still wanted her daughter to send away the Maitreya invited by our Buddhist association, thinking that without heavily bribing the monks, the Buddha would punish her.
一个出身底层的女性，一辈子控制着老公与儿女。
A woman from a humble background, controlling her husband and children all her life.
如果她要当了女皇，秦始皇也不如她。
If she became an empress, even Qin Shi Huang would be outdone by her.
她没有把我当做儿子，从此我也不把她当做妈，他儿子也不屑听她的话。
She didn't treat me as a son, and from then on, I didn't treat her as a mother, and her son also disdained to listen to her.
逢年过节，咱还是各回各的家，各看各自的妈。
During holidays, we still go back to our own homes and visit our own mothers.
